I signed up for a communications class. And, four other classes. And, I’m working. I’m overwhelmed. Thankfully, communication is one of those meta-skills that magically helps with everything else in your life. Just like meditations, or philosophy, or joining a multi-level marketing scheme.
So, what would I like to learn from communications class?
I need to communicate better with my boss. She’s completely different from me in every aspect except that neither one of us is scared of engaging in verbal conflict. I take the bait too often. Maybe this class will make me watch my tongue more than I do. But, I’m not sure if I would want that. There’s an article I read about how conflict in the workplace is actually a good thing. Not sure if I believe that because of the article, or if I read the article because I believe that.
I have always been really laid back and relaxed, but recent arguments have made me realize that I like arguing. And, I don’t like that.
I’d also like to be able to connect with people who are different from me. It’s super easy to totally hit it off with someone who’s of a similar age, and has similar interests, and who’s lived experience is similar to mine. But once I start talking to people from drastically different background and experiences there’s a distance; A gap that I don’t know how to bridge. I don’t mind the gap, and perhaps it’s a good thing that it’s there. Maybe there’s a good reason for it to exist, but if there’s a way to mend it I would benefit from that.
Most importantly I’d like to learn how to get an ‘A’ and maintain my sweet GPA.
Miscommunicating Communication 